Representatives from the Gaston County commissioners' office have converged in Raleigh to drum up support for a resolution that would require North Carolina couples to wait 30 days before marrying so that they can obtain premarital counseling. Lawmakers from the region think such a requirement would make marriages stronger. Rep. Bill Current (R-Gaston) believes the legislature spends time trying to fix problems that result because of failed marriages.
For Gaston County, the resolution, which wouldn't require the waiting period for people who can provide proof they've already had premarital counseling, is aimed at reducing its divorce rate. The national average is 50 percent; North Carolina's average is 56%; and 59% of marriages fail in Gaston County.
Gaston County Rep. Wil Neuman (R) believes counseling would help couples prepare for problems down the road. In part, the resolution reads, "The emotional and financial impact to families, especially those involving young children, is devastating and leads to social, behavioral and physical maladjustments to be addressed by physicians, the clergy, social services, police, health and mental health and schools."
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